While it doesn’t seem like it should be a challenge, planning a vacation can be a bit more work for GLBTQ individuals. You have your own wishes and desires, your partner’s wishes, as well as concerns about whether a given place will be safe and welcoming. You should also consider whether you want a more social vacation or more privacy during your getaway. International travel poses its own concerns, especially with regard to personal safety. If you wish to travel with a tour group, you may prefer one geared to GLBTQ singles, couples or families.

Cruises are popular options across the board, and you will find a number of options directly geared to the gay community. These range from singles cruises to couples options, and even cruises for gay parents and their children. Gay.com Cruises section offers a thorough list of gay cruising options, ranging from small and romantic cruises to party ships that are great fun for a cruise with friends. Research the cruise options available to find the one right for you and your traveling companions.

If you’re looking for a beach getaway, you’ll be pleased to know that many resorts are openly welcoming and gay friendly. The Sandals resorts now welcome same sex couples after a policy change in 2004, and many resorts actively court the GLBTQ community. Club Med also welcomes both gay couples and families. Gay.com also offers a list of the best gay resorts in the business, but do keep in mind some may not be ideal for families traveling with kids in tow, and this particular list is geared toward men.

If you’re looking for a big celebration and socialization, you have a number of options. GayDays in Orlando is one, with the chance to party and hang out at Disney and other theme parks. The Dinah Shore weekend in Palm Springs draws lesbians from across the country for dancing, days at the pool, concerts and stand up comedy. Pride celebrations across the country, particularly in San Francisco and New York City also draw travelers from the GLBTQ community.

Several resort towns are especially known as meccas of GLBTQ culture. Provincetown, MA is at the top of this list. Fire Island, New York and Key West, Florida come in close behind. Palm Springs, CA is also popular gay destination, with great resorts and wonderful hiking opportunities. Great gay friendly beaches, art galleries and clubs all make these great destinations if you’re looking to relax with your partner or perhaps meet someone new. Families will find that Disney’s theme parks are always welcoming, even if the gay resort towns have somewhat less for them.