Overcoming Crystal Meth

Gay City News ran a piece about Overcoming Crystal Meth by Steven Lee, a psychiatrist who specializes in crystal methamphetamine addiction, last week.

From Amazon.com’s Book Description: Based on extensive scientific and social research and drawing from his professional experience, [Steven Lee] covers everything from the definition and history of crystal meth to the physical and psychological effects; from dealing with the addictive personality to helping a friend or family member cope with it. He focuses on understanding rather than outright condemnation of the drug, and empathetically covers all of the crucial questions: What is crystal meth? How is it made? How does it affect the body? How do you know if you’re addicted to it? How do you stop using it? What if you don’t want to stop? If you are going to use CM anyway, how can you minimize the damage? What if you quit but slipped and used again?

Overcoming Crystal Meth Addiction: An Essential Guide to Getting Clean

More about the addiction to Crystal Meth…

Coming Out As Straight

A mention of Cheryl B.’s forthcoming anthology Coming Out of the Closet Again: Queer Women on Loving Men got me looking around for any word on when it will be released. One thing I found during my unsuccessful search is an article, from 2001, titled “Coming out of the closet — to be straight” (only half of this piece is available to those who are not Salon.com Premium members).

Melissa Levine was 28 when she realized that she had no sexual interest in women (though she had exclusively dated them) and only wanted to be with men; that she was straight.

I love women; I connect with women. Three times in eight years, I have fallen in love with women — women I would have committed my life to, if I could have. And for me, this love translated into romance, and then into sex, though only briefly.

I wanted the lesbian life, complete with herbal tea, incestuous friendships and golden retrievers. I cherished the emotional intimacy and craved the freedom, power and joy of the queer community, which looked like home. But when I finally had that dream within my reach, I couldn’t do it. I was in love with my girlfriend, but I didn’t want to have sex with her.

I have no idea how difficult it is to come out as straight to those you’ve shared a lesbian life with. I do, however, remember the outrage, years ago, when I dated a trans guy for the first time. I was “working my way back.”

Do you know anyone who came out as straight? I’m wondering what their experience was like. I do believe that it’s probable you will lose people when you come out, as anything. The good thing is you’ll lose the right people.

Congratulations, Sally!

Sally Bellerose’s “Breaking Vows” is the winner of the 2006 Rick DeMarini’s Short Story Award.

Congratulations, Sally! I’m so happy to hear the news.

Call for Submissions: _My Gay Brother_

Kevin Bentley is still accepting submissions for My Gay Brother. You now have until February 1st, 2007, to submit your writing.

Most gay men grow up as strangers in their own families, outsiders with a closely-guarded secret. But many gay men share that secret in common with someone very close by in the foxholes of the family battle, acknowledged or not: a brother. Whether they know it at first or only sense a difference, how they are alike or how surprisingly they differ, how one’s coming out affects the other, the special bond they may share as adults—or not; how having a gay brother influenced their developing identities and made them who they are today: these are some of the issues that will be addressed in the personal essays collected in My Gay Brother.

Read the full call for submissions here.

You can find Maria on MySpace here and read her current call for essays on femme identity here. Pick up Queer Shorts, her new anthology, at MergePress.com.

My queer anthology is on sale throughout Dec. 20th!

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Merge Press is offering 15% off all of its titles until December 20th! To get your 15% discount, use “holly” as your voucher code.

You can find Maria on MySpace here and read her current call for essays on femme identity here. Pick up Queer Shorts, her new anthology, at MergePress.com.

Scholarships for Queer High School Students

Queer Foundation offers to the winners of the 2007 high school English essay contest $1,000 scholarships to attend the college or university of their choice in the 2007–08 academic year to study queer theory or related fields.

The theme of the 2007 high school English essay contest is pink ink (”We write not only about different things; we also write differently”—Brecht).

Suggested approaches:

1. We’re Here and We’re Queer: Interviews with Queer Teenagers and Their Friends
2. Living Healthy as Queer Teenagers
3. Getting Smart: Education Issues of Queer Teenagers

Click here for contest rules, judging criteria, and to find out how to submit an essay.

You can find Maria on MySpace here and read her current call for essays on femme identity here. Pick up Queer Shorts, her new anthology, at MergePress.com.

The Darrah Update

You can read Darrah de jour’s December Femme in the City column here.

Also, Darrah was recently featured in Blade Newsmagazine:

MSJCPAGE interviewed myself and others in the community to talk about the term “tranny chaser.” The result, a well-scribed and informative yarn-spin about gender, appears in December’s Blade Newsmagazine, on stands now!

Blade Newsmagazine is not available online, but here’s a snippet of the article for you:

If a queer femme is attracted to masculine gender outlaws, especially if she acts upon that attraction, she may be called a “tranny chaser.” Even if she is coming from a point of advocacy, she is subject to be included in the “tranny chaser” category, rather than to be seen as a valuable ally. Some girlie girls feel more comfortable with the fluidity in the queer (inclusive of trans and gender-gifted) community, than the lesbian community. They identify as queer femmes, rather than with the “L” word.

If Darrah, a beautiful young femme writer and performer, is called a tranny chaser, her first response is to feel disrespected. “Queer femme is my gender expression and the queer community is mine too! I am not just identified by my partner. I don’t like the ‘why are you here?’ feeling I have experienced at trans’ events. I don’t want to feel under the gun to explain myself.”

If you’re in the LA area, pick up a copy of Blade Newsmagazine to read the rest!

You can find Maria on MySpace here and read her current call for essays on femme identity here. Pick up Queer Shorts, her new anthology, at MergePress.com.

Attention Queer Writers in New York City

Janine Avril, the founder of GirlSalon, “a forum for queer women/trans artists/performers,” is considering hosting monthly readings at the Perch Cafe and Bar in Park Slope.

From Janine:

[I]f you are a writer interested in reading please send me your name, contact info and what you type of stuff you write (poetry, prose, fiction, etc). Spread the word to people you know and have them touch base w/me.

She’d also like to hear from people who are interested in joining an informal writers group.

Email Janine at: janinesays @ hotmail dot com

You can find Maria on MySpace here and read her current call for essays on femme identity here. Pick up Queer Shorts, her new anthology, at MergePress.com.

Submissions Needed for an Anthology about Western Privilege and International Travel

From Bruin Christopher Runyan:

Less Than Settled: Critical Perspectives on Travel and Privilege

**CALL FOR SUBMISSIONS**

What compromises do activists, organizers, and those actively pursuing social justice make when traveling internationally? How does the experience of living in a global super power, either “legally” or “not”, affect our reception in countries that make up the global south? How do we own (or not own) our privilege, be it race, class, age, gender, sexuality, citizenship, body type, or ability in another cultural context? What happens when our identities are anything but simple and we experience oppression simultaneously with privilege? What does contemporary colonialism look like and what is our responsibility to its existence and perpetuation while traveling? What does traveling respectfully, accountably or even radically look like? Is it possible?

This anthology seeks to address critical questions around western privilege and international travel. Specifically, bruin wants to investigate how activists, organizers, critical thinkers, radicals, progressives, and subversives bring or don’t bring their politics with them when they travel to the third world/two-thirds world/global south. bruin wants to hear specifically from those who have decided not to travel and from those who travel but feel less than settled about it. How do folks negotiate steadfast beliefs about social justice and oppression when in different cultural contexts that don’t share such beliefs or share them differently? What is open to compromise and what will never be compromised?

Other questions hoping to be explored include: critiques of eco-tourism or “activism”-based tourisms, critical experiences around international summit hopping and “solidarity work,” especially in the global south, participation in other countries’ revolutionary movements, the romanticization of such movements, thoughts about sexual opportunism, associating with other travelers/responsibilities around other travelers, and thoughts and experiences of ex-patriots of those who struggle with desires to become ex-patriots. What do our projects with other international activists look like? How does our privilege and power enter into our cross-border romantic relationships as well as cross-border friendships? How does this affect our work at home? How do we travel to countries that we’re from or our family of origin is from, where the distance is less and potentially more at the same time?

bruin is less interested in political theory and well-worded rants and more interested in the complication and contradiction of your lived experiences. Please be honest. Let’s create a space for our mistakes and visions. Less Than Settled hopes to emerge as a resource and the continuation of a conversation that is critical to better living what we’re hoping to create.

bruin christopher runyan is a white, genderqueer, trans, urban queerbo and organizer in seattle, washington who thinks too much. He is committed to having conversations that make him uncomfortable but further the creation of fabulous, critical, sustainable, and transformative communities. He has traveled in latin america, southern africa, and throughout north america and feels way complicated about it.

DETAILS:

*Please submit non-fiction essays up to 6,000 words. Essays must be typewritten, double-spaced and submitted via mail. Please include a short bio.

*Send essays to:

Less Than Settled
c/o bruin christopher runyan
1643 south king street
seattle, washington 98144

*Feel free to contact bruin with questions at bruinator@gmail.com

*Deadline for submissions is: (June 31, 2007), but really, the sooner the better.

You can find Maria on MySpace here and read her current call for essays on femme identity here. Pick up Queer Shorts, her new anthology, at MergePress.com.

_Nobody Passes_ Book Launch

If you’re in or around the Bay Area, stop by one of these two free celebrations of the launch of Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity.

Tuesday, December 5, 2006
6 p.m.

San Francisco Main Library
100 Larkin Street
Latino/Hispanic Community Meeting Room
Featuring Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz, Kirk Read, Dean Spade, Tommi Avicolli Mecca, Amy André, Dominika Bednarska, Nico Dacumos, Irina Contreras, Jennifer Blowdryer, Logan Gutierrez-Mock, Jen Cross, Amy André and Mattilda a.k.a. Matt Bernstein Sycamore

Thursday, December 7, 2006
7 p.m.

Delicious Reading and Devastating Discussion
City Lights Bookstore
261 Columbus Ave. at Broadway
(415) 362-8193
Featuring Benjamin Shepard, Irina Contreras, Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz, Kirk Read, Nico Dacumos, Jennifer Blowdryer and Mattilda a.k.a. Matt Bernstein Sycamore

You can find Maria on MySpace here and read her current call for essays on femme identity here. Pick up Queer Shorts, her new anthology, at MergePress.com.

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