“When tearing off a round of golf, a may make a play for the caddie. But if I do, I don’t follow through, ‘cos my heart belongs to Daddy.’ (Apologies to Cole if I’ve remembered the lyrics incorrectly.)

So, how do you find a sugar daddy? How does a younger guy meet up with an older one and get himself enfolded into the arms of someone who is rich and willing to share that wealth? I’ll tell you one thing: if I knew I wouldn’t be here!

Only joking. But it’s an interesting question. In fact someone should write a book about it. But to do that you will need to know the answer. Well, here are a few things I found that may well help you a) find your own sugardaddy or b) make some money out of writing a ‘How To’ book about it all.

A simple web search brought a few interesting starting points. First of all came gayarrangement.com which seems to be the answer to all our prayers. Here is a site where you are actually encouraged to cut to the chase and hook up; that’s older, successful guys (and girls actually) who are looking for younger men and vice versa. Perfect. How does it work? Actually it works like any other dating and hook up site. You can sign up for free and get to access some basic functions and features: Set up a profile, add pictures, basic search, send and receive winks, receive unlimited emails – but you can only send one per day so don’t be greedy! And there are a few other functions too. With a full membership you get much more, but I couldn’t for the life of me find out how much that cost. You have to sign up for the free registration first and then upgrade. There’s a simple search engine to fill out so you can see before you buy what your chances of finding Mr. Right-to-the-bank are.

So that’s one site that is dedicated to fitting up younger guys and girls with richer older ones.

The second one I found was sugardaddyforme.com. This is a mixed site in that it is for gay and straight folk alike. I found it a bit frustrating as you couldn’t do anything until you had registered, not even a basic search. But once again it’s free to register and then you can go for a silver package or a gold one and both have two levels; one where only other members can contact you and one where anyone can. The top price here is $39.90 a month, and the bottom price is $19.95 a month, so even a sugar baby is going to have to have some pennies in his/her pocket to get really involved.

And then came some others (thanks to a Questions and Answers site) with the likes of: eekingarrangement.com/gaysugardaddy which again is mainly aimed at guys seeking guys and girls seeking girls, so much more up our street. Here I was able to run a basic search, see photos and basic details and then go and register, for free with the usual upgrades available. Check out sugardaddies.com to find a link to a gay specific hook up site, Date Gay Millionaire, and you’ll be up and running very quickly, once you’ve logged in.

So, these days it seems you can simply search the net, fill out a form, part with a little cash… sorry investment, and then hook up with older or younger guys, rich or poor and start preparing yourself for all the fun and frolics that come with being a sugardaddy or a sugar baby.

Alternatively you could wheedle your way into a Casino, hang around the tables, look gorgeous, be prepared to do anything bordering on actually becoming an escort or rent boy, and find an older, richer male that way. I suspect it’s much easier for older guys to find younger ones, simply flash the cash in any bar or club. But watch out; doing it that way is unlikely to lead you to genuine guys – much safer is to use one of the established sites mentioned above, follow their guidelines and meet genuinely interested parties.

Rihanna’s “Only Girl (In The World)” music video was just released and it is the first single off her upcoming album LOUD, which will be released November 16. Above is the cover art for her “Only Girl (In The World)” single. I like this one better than the LOUD cover itself. This video has a stripper beat to it makes you want to gyrate your body around but Rihanna always has a way of doing that to us.

Here is an email we received from a LGBT 16 yr old concerned about the recent gay suicides:

My names Kendall, I’m 16 and I am a lesbian and I have been ever since I can remember. I grew up in private school my entire life and I started to realize that I did like girls when I was 11.When I turned 12 I started going to a private Lutheran school and I made some good friends throughout my time there, that were actually in the closet and I didn’t even know it. Then 8th grade hit. I texted a girl saying, ‘I wanted her in my bed’ when I was completely joking and she told everyone that I was gay. I was literally mortified because 1. I could have gotten kicked out of school. 2. It was my secret, and I didn’t even fully admit it to myself by then. 3. Kids would ridicule me. Throughout that year I was pushed into walls and lockers, called lesbian, gross, weird, ect. ALL the time, spit on once, whispered about when I walked by, and laughed at. I literally didn’t want to go to school anymore. I went through a depression but put on a happy face every single day. I contemplated suicide because I thought if they can’t accept me, who can? Maybe if I die then I’ll come back as someone else. But I pulled through when allot of my friends started coming out to me. That rumor, well true rumor, helped them realize that they weren’t alone and that they can trust that at least one person wouldn’t judge them for who they are. It completely changed my outlook on things. Me being gay is a good thing, others being gay is a good thing, and you being gay is definitely a good thing. My close friend is actually going through issues with her mom right now because she found out she was gay, and she won’t accept her. I kind of blame myself for it sometimes because I made her realize she was gay, and made her comfortable enough to share it with people. Now her life is hell. It’s those moments where you start to think yourself that maybe being gay is wrong and it does hurt people. But no, it’s her mom’s fault; she’s doing the wrong not my friend who accepts herself for it. It hurts me when people can’t accept themselves or has someone that’s supposed to love them unconditionally that just won’t even try to. Even if you think you don’t “hate” gays it’s just as wrong to say ew when you see two guys kissing. It’s judging either way. If you can accept someone who has sex before marriage, who judges, and who disrespects their parents, then you can accept people who are gay. Just because some book says it’s wrong doesn’t mean that you can go out and drive people kill themselves for it. It’s just as wrong and even worse morally. If a person doesn’t love you, or doesn’t accept you for something you can’t help, they’re the ones who are wrong. I still don’t really understand why it’s so weird and wrong to be gay or why it’s not acceptable.. But I guess our society isn’t developed enough yet. Kids, teens, parents, people of the world, if we just work together to make this world a loving, place, we can save a lot of lives. I’m not judging people who judge me, so they shouldn’t judge me for liking the same gender. These suicides, the bullying, and the judgment NEEDS to stop. If you’re thinking about suicide, remember that you are not alone. There is always someone there to help.

Keep the stories coming in we want to hear from you!

Cosmetic surgery for men is gaining in popularity, particularly for men between the ages of 30 and 60 years of age. Men may opt to have cosmetic surgery for elective reasons, to improve their confidence, or they may decide to have reconstructive surgery to repair congenital or developmental defects, abnormalities caused by tumors or other health problems, or injuries or other structural problems. Elective cosmetic surgery is generally not covered by insurance, while reconstructive surgery usually is.
Men have many options when it comes to cosmetic surgery. Botox and hyaluronic acid are injectable fillers that provide rejuvenation and provide a more youthful appearance immediately, and allow a man to return to his normal activities shortly after the procedure. Both offer only temporary results, however, and will need to be repeated. Costs may start around $300.

Blepharoplasty is an eyelid procedure that is performed under local anesthesia. It can reduce puffiness, hooding, and sagging, and men are left looking well-rested and fresh. Recovery time can take from one to two weeks. Costs begin around $2,000.

Cheek and chin augmentations, along with rhinoplasty (nose-job), offer men ways to sculpt and define their faces. These procedures may be performed individually, but are often performed in conjunction with one another under general anesthesia to maintain harmony of the facial features. Rhinoplasty may be either a reduction or an augmentation, depending upon the man’s desires and facial features. Recovery time ranges from a few days to two weeks. Average costs for a rhinoplasty are about $3,000.

Cosmetic surgery for men also includes such body sculpting options as tummy tucks and cheap liposuction. Men with stubborn fat deposits that do not respond to diet and exercise may appreciate liposuction’s ability to target the fat directly and remove it. Tummy tucks remove excess skin and tighten muscles. Tummy tucks can help men regain their former physique, whether their tone was lost through weight gain or normal aging. Recovery time can take from one to two weeks. Liposuction starts around $2,000.

Many men suffer from pseudo-gynecomastia, a condition in which fat tissue accumulates in their breasts. This can be relatively easily removed via liposuction as long as only fat tissue is present, and men may be able to return to work in less than a week. In men with true gynecomastia, a condition in which the breast has developed with fat as well as breast tissue, an excision may be necessary to remove the excess glandular tissue. Recovery time may be about two weeks. Costs vary according to procedure.

Hair is also a common concern for many men, whether it is a matter of too little or too much. Laser hair removal and hair transplants are both popular cosmetic options for men to look their best. Mini-grafts and micro-grafts are popular hair transplant techniques that produce quite natural results when used by skilled surgeons. Laser hair removal generally works by aiming a high intensity beam of light at the hair follicle. This may require more than one session, and it is important to discuss hair removal options with a dermatologist since not all laser hair removal systems work with all skin tones. Costs vary according to procedure.

Because cosmetic surgery for men is becoming more popular, it is important to know how to find a good surgeon. Any doctor is legally allowed to call themselves a cosmetic surgeon, but not all doctors are truly qualified to perform many of these procedures. It is important to select a board certified plastic surgeon. There are three plastic surgery boards: the American Board of Plastic Surgery, the American Board of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, and the American Board of Otolaryngology. A doctor’s credentials can also be verified by checking with the American Board of Medical Specialties.

In order to get the best possible results from their surgery experience, men should get into their best possible physical shape first. They should stop smoking, limit their alcohol consumption, and eat a healthy, balanced diet. They should be realistic about the results they expect and understand that no surgery – even elective surgery – is without risk.

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Talk about the perfect gag gift come this dirty Santa is Lil’ Wayne Condoms and Justin Bieber Nail Polish. The ‘One Less Lonely Girl’ nail polish line will be sold at Wal-Marts this December but why is Justin Biebs selling nail polish. What could he possibly know about something he doesn’t wear or does he? Maybe Justin Bieber is a lipstick lesbian?

We know one thing and Bieber is the hottest selling and most popular celebrity on the planet right now. With the American Music Awards coming up in November we can already predict he will take home all the awards he’s up for there is just no competition when it comes to record sales or twitter popularity. The teen girls are going nuts over this boy and many lesbians. Well you know the ‘Lesbians Who Look Like Justin Bieber,” fanpage has over 34,000 fans or likes on Facebook.

He also just came out with a book that is his “Forever” story book. Which some think why would he have a book out now at the young age of 16? Well it’s because once all these screaming girls forget about him 10 years from now he may need that book to look back at the memories. He could turn out to be as popular as Macaulay Culkin from Home Alone is right now or lots of other teen stars we have used and then thrown away to the paparazzi hell where we watch them fall and they do nothing but make the tabloids money.

The teen also gets his swag on with a bobble head. This to me is like a voodoo doll with some creepers and stalkers playing with this doll but still it serves as the perfect Gag Gift.

Maybe we all need some of this magical nail polish that Justin Bieber has going for him!

Lil’ Wayne is bending over for a police officer over a car and this is a condom ad? The strange thing he is not in uniform and Lil’ Wayne maybe preparing for his jail sentence with condoms? On a serious note, I do not see the point of him bending over a police car for a condom ad since he is not gay and makes no sense. You talk about ads that have some hidden meaning in them but I am not sure what to think about this one.

Lil’ Wayne is the perfect candidate for a brand of condoms though but you would think he would show a pic of him strapped by some blond patrol officer instead. The rap artist has five kids so he might should have remembered the rubbers a few kids back. If you ask me this condom ad is perfect material for Kink.com’s website. This is a few years old but it still surprises me.

LOGO has a new series with some gay men this time and they are fighting it out like Desperate Housewives. It seems they have all dated someone who has dated someone who knows one of them and all on the A-list or at least have been formerly on the spotlight. Austin Armacost, 22, model, and former boyfriend of Marc Jabobs is originally from Indiana which is where I would go to hunt for models. There are some hot boys from there but he also modeled in LA and then got away in London, UK for awhile now hes back in NYC on the A-List on LOGO. Here are some pics of Austin we thought were hot especially the Abercrombie and Fitch flip flop pic, the shirtless one showing his hot guns, and the Banana Republic Underwear pic are my favorites.

There was another gay suicide in Oklahoma near OU this week and it getting worse and worse. We need more gay teens who can shaire their story. It is good sometimes to write and let it all out rather than to leave things inside you. Feel free to use our blog to share your stories by sending us via email gaysitedude @ gmail.com or writing a post. If you are a gay, bi, transgender, lesbian, or are friends with a teen and you or your friend has debated suicide and you prevented it let us know your story needs to be heard.

We want to hear from you about anything and everything. If you would like to post a blog on here let us know get your voice out there. Our community must come together stronger. We can do this and end the suicides!

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Kathy Griffin speaking up about the recent gay suicides. The comedian gets serious for a minute to make some good points that if you live in a Republican blue state that you are not alone being gay and should not feel lonely you have someone and the reasons for sticking around and seeing change. One gay person to idolize is Suze Orman and that is so true Suze is everything to be and the perfect role model and she is a lesbian.